My name is Keri. I am trying to find some support for my significant other. S/he is almost 21, I am 19. We have been going out for about 3 months but have been friends (now best friends) for over a year. S/he is having some problems idenity wise. See, s/he does not idenitfy as a woman nor as a man. S/he is biologically female. S/he is not quite trans either. S/he feels s/he is alone. I don't know how to help her/him. Any surgestions?